Kick Melissa out of the California Lolita Community.

Melissa Brown is an embarrasment to the lolita community, both in California and internationally. His presence has made many people feel uncomfortable, to the point where they will not go to meet ups where he may be present. He has made violent threats towards other people in the San Francisco community, and it has been suggested that he uses the fashion as a way to fill his sexual fantasies. Liking facebook pages such as "Sissydom" and "Transgender Crossdressing Transsexual Fantasy Video" on the same Facebook account he has created for his lolita identity shows that he considers lolita to be a fetish, as he associates the two together. He has invited friends who are involved in his fetish to meet ups and those people defile the fashion. Anyone who remotely insults this person is labeled as transphobic, which has heavy implications in todays society. Many members have described him as being creepy, and said that most of the time at meet ups all he does is stare at them. Melissas involvement in lolita has the potential to harm the reputation of the community as a whole. 

 

We do not want Melissa to leave because we are transphobic. We want him to leave because she is scaring people away from the community and associating an unwanted image with the lolita fashion. He has made violent threats towards other people and has made others feel uncomfortable around him.

Explaination of how this will effect peoples opinions of lolitas and brolitas internationally:

"As a brolita myself, Melissa and people like him are one of the reasons within the Lolita community I feel discredits and bruises the presence of males within the fashion's culture. 

The fashion itself is about embracing femininity without being overtly sexual. Melissa is a prime example of when someone goes out of their way, despite their ignorant intentions to sully and poison this idea. Melissa is, as stated, a sissy. His only reason to cross the gender binary isn't for genuine expression but rather to live out a fantasy that seems to be based on self-degregation and possibly gender hate-he gets off from being emasculated.
Melissa, and men like him, any man who hasn't adapted good social skills and joined this community and become purposely perverted towards people are tarnishing the reputation of brolitas. There's already a stigma developing where brolitas tend to be associated with the word "creepy". Melissa simply wants to pick up girls and make them fill his sexual pleasures. He is not transsexual, and he is not transfeminine. He is guilting members of that comm into not kicking him out because no one wants to say anything that would make them look like a hater. We should be bringing brolitas closer into the comms, and stopping potentially dangerous people like Melissa."
 

Evidence of his violent comments towards a girl in the community.